5 things you don’t need to worry about during sex

Does the prospect of having sex flood your mind with uncomfortable thoughts? You’re not alone in this. It is fairly common for women to overthink things like weight and body-image issues before and during sex. We’ve rounded up five anxious thoughts that may have run through your mind during sex, and how to get rid
of them.

What if I don’t orgasm again?
How many times have you let your inability to orgasm through intercourse get under your skin? Just turn off your brain during sex and let your body feel every sensation. Even if you don’t climax through intercourse alone, you can always use your fingers, or his, to achieve a quick and fulfilling orgasm.

Will he notice the scar on my thigh?
He probably won’t. So instead on focusing on your imperfections (everyone has them, BTW) focus on the task at hand—which is having a great time with the very delicious, naked man next to you in bed.

Does he feel neglected?
It’s not a bad thing to let your partner pleasure you. Your pleasure is as important as his, and there’s no reason to feel guilty about it. But if you still do, make up for it by rocking his world once he’s done rocking yours. Then you’ll be even!

Does he enjoy sex with me?
It’s very easy to imagine yourself a bumbling fool in bed, especially if you haven’t had much experience. All you can do is be yourself and try to have a good time. If you’re enjoying sex with your guy, chances are, he loves it too.

How many girls has he slept with?
Have his particularly good moves got you wondering about the number of times he’s done it before? Trust us, nothing good can come of this. He’s with you now and that’s all that matters. Why not just enjoy the unrelenting sex machine that your man is?

-FEMINA